You didn't choose the patterns that run you.
But you can choose what happens next.
"I work with men who are ready to stop working around who they are and find out what's actually in the way."
20 years. 1280+ men. Relationships, identity, presence, purpose it all starts with naming the pattern that's been running the show.
Free Discovery Call · No Pitch · 30 Minutes
Book Your FREE Intro SessionYou didn't choose the patterns that run you
But you can choose what happens next
"I work with men who are ready to stop working around who they are and find out what's actually in the way." .
20 years. 280+ men. Relationships, identity, presence, purpose it all starts with naming the pattern that's been running the show.
Free Discovery Call · No Pitch · 30 Minutes
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Clear the Pattern
You don't have a confidence problem. You have a pattern running underneath it. We find where it started, name it precisely, and dismantle it at the root so you stop managing the symptom and start operating from somewhere solid.
2
Build Real Connection
Most men don't have a communication problem. They have an availability problem they're not actually present in the room. Learn to show up with depth, emotional range, and the kind of grounded presence that earns real trust in relationships and everywhere else.
3
Lead From the Inside
The man who can't lead himself can't lead anything else. Stop outsourcing your state to your inbox, your partner, or your bank account. Develop the internal authority to move through pressure with clarity and build a life that reflects who you actually are.
1
Clear the Pattern
You don't have a confidence problem. You have a pattern running underneath it. We find where it started, name it precisely, and dismantle it at the root so you stop managing the symptom and start operating from somewhere solid.
2
Build Real Connection
Most men don't have a communication problem. They have an availability problem they're not actually present in the room. Learn to show up with depth, emotional range, and the kind of grounded presence that earns real trust in relationships and everywhere else.
3
Lead From the Inside
The man who can't lead himself can't lead anything else. Stop outsourcing your state to your inbox, your partner, or your bank account. Develop the internal authority to move through pressure with clarity and build a life that reflects who you actually are.
Find Out What's Actually in the Way
A free 30-minute conversation. No pitch. Just clarity.
In one session you'll identify the pattern that's been holding you back, understand why the usual approaches haven't worked, and leave with a clear picture of what the path forward looks like.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Monthly Spots Available.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Monthly Spots Available.
About Coaching With Shae
Most coaching works on the surface. Shae works underneath it.
The patterns running your life — the ones showing up in your relationships, your work, your sense of self — weren't chosen. They were learned. Early. And they've been operating below your awareness ever since.
Shae's work is precise: find the pattern, name it, clear it, and build something more aligned in its place. Not years of therapy. Not surface-level mindset work. A structured process that gets to the root and moves fast because it's working on the right thing.
After 20 years and 280+ men, the work delivers four things consistently:
- Clarity on what's actually been running the show — not the story you've been telling yourself.
- Freedom from the pattern at the root, not just better management of the symptoms.
- A rebuilt identity — grounded, clear, and yours. Not a performance of who you think you should be.
- Real presence — in your relationships, your work, and your own experience of being alive.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Spots Available.
This is where the work starts. One conversation to find out what's running your life — and what it looks like on the other side.
Book a Call with Shae and Liberate Yourself TodayBreak free from limiting patterns, build unshakable confidence, and master your emotions with Shae Matthews
Find Out What's Actually in the Way
A free 30-minute conversation. No pitch. Just clarity.
In one session you'll identify the pattern that's been holding you back, understand why the usual approaches haven't worked, and leave with a clear picture of what the path forward looks like.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Monthly Spots Available.
About Coaching With Shae
Most coaching works on the surface. Shae works underneath it.
The patterns running your life — the ones showing up in your relationships, your work, your sense of self — weren't chosen. They were learned. Early. And they've been operating below your awareness ever since.
Shae's work is precise: find the pattern, name it, clear it, and build something more aligned in its place. Not years of therapy. Not surface-level mindset work. A structured process that gets to the root and moves fast because it's working on the right thing.
After 20 years and 280+ men, the work delivers four things consistently:
- Clarity on what's actually been running the show — not the story you've been telling yourself.
- Freedom from the pattern at the root, not just better management of the symptoms.
- A rebuilt identity — grounded, clear, and yours. Not a performance of who you think you should be.
- Real presence — in your relationships, your work, and your own experience of being alive.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Spots Available.
The Work in Practice
See what the process actually looks like — and what changes when the pattern stops running the show.
Limited Spots Available.
Here's How It Works
Three steps from where you are to where you're going:
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Book your free intro session.
30 minutes. We identify the pattern that's been running your life — the one underneath the overthinking, the stagnation, the feeling that something essential is missing. Most men have never had it named precisely before. -
Get your roadmap — whether we work together or not.
You'll leave with clarity on what's actually in the way and what the path forward looks like. No obligation. No pitch. -
If it's a fit — enter Clean Slate.
The first and most important phase of the work. An 18-schema clearing process that goes to the root of what's been holding you back and builds the foundation for everything that follows. This is where the Phoenix Rising begins.
100% Risk-Free · Zero Pressure · One Honest Conversation
Shae works with a small number of men at a time.
3 spots open this month
The Areas That Change When the Pattern Does
Here's How It Works
Three steps from where you are to where you're going:
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Book your free intro session.
30 minutes. We identify the pattern that's been running your life — the one underneath the overthinking, the stagnation, the feeling that something essential is missing. Most men have never had it named precisely before. -
Get your roadmap — whether we work together or not.
You'll leave with clarity on what's actually in the way and what the path forward looks like. No obligation. No pitch. -
If it's a fit — enter Clean Slate.
The first and most important phase of the work. An 18-schema clearing process that goes to the root of what's been holding you back and builds the foundation for everything that follows. This is where the Phoenix Rising begins.
100% Risk-Free · Zero Pressure · One Honest Conversation
Shae works with a small number of men at a time.
3 spots open this month
Shaes Coaching Works To Transform Key Areas Of Your Life Including:
20 Years. One Consistent Body of Work.
With over 20 years of experience working with men across four continents, Shae Matthews has built one of the most precise and battle-tested approaches to masculine transformation available.
He's not a motivational coach. He's not a therapist. He sits in a category most coaches don't occupy — someone who has mapped the inner architecture of how men get stuck, built a methodology for dismantling it at the root, and spent two decades refining it through real client work with 280+ men.
His methodology — built on schema psychology, somatic healing, and identity reconstruction — specialises in the patterns that run men's lives from the basement: the chronic self-doubt, the disconnection, the competence without presence, the success that somehow still feels hollow.
He teaches this work because he still lives it. That's what makes it different.
Limited Spots Available.
Meet Executive Transformation Coach & Mentor,
"The Inner Game Shaeman"
20 Years. One Consistent Body of Work.
With over 20 years of experience working with men across four continents, Shae Matthews has built one of the most precise and battle-tested approaches to masculine transformation available.
He's not a motivational coach. He's not a therapist. He sits in a category most coaches don't occupy — someone who has mapped the inner architecture of how men get stuck, built a methodology for dismantling it at the root, and spent two decades refining it through real client work with 280+ men.
His methodology — built on schema psychology, somatic healing, and identity reconstruction — specialises in the patterns that run men's lives from the basement: the chronic self-doubt, the disconnection, the competence without presence, the success that somehow still feels hollow.
He teaches this work because he still lives it. That's what makes it different.
Limited Spots Available.
About The Coaching With Shae Matthews
Shae's coaching methods are especially designed to help men stuck in themselves and life to get the skills and understandings they need to redefine their lives from the inside out and create a next level of identity and lifestyle. Using scientifically proven rapid transformational methods to deliver clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of purpose. Shae will personally guide you through sessions to shift from emotional pain to optimal outcomes.
Coaching is designed to help you:
- Release deep-seated fears and insecurities.
- Uncover and break free from unconscious habits.
- Reclaim your energy, focus, and resilience.
- Heal deep-rooted traumas and eliminate limiting beliefs that hold you back.
- Reset your mental state to better support your goals and aspirations.
- Learn strategies for developing resilience and consistency.
- Identify areas of hidden potential for transformation in relationships and career
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Monthly Spots Available.
Real Client Transformation Stories
Work With Shae, Break Free, Build Confidence, and Thrive
Real Client Stories.
Work With Shae, Break Free, Build Confidence, and Thrive
Real Client Stories.
Work With Shae, Break Free, Build Confidence, and Thrive
SIMON
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"Shae Totally Changed How I See Myself"
I heard amazing things about Shae's teachings and the transformative effects on many people's lives, and so was eager to work with him myself. Starting with our first meeting, he gave me several powerful tools to help me directly address my limiting beliefs about my own self-worth. Just talking with Shae had a powerful effect on shattering and reshaping my concept of reality; he has a way of phrasing difficult concepts in metaphors and explanations that are very easy to digest. I can't count the number of 'ah-ha!' moments I've had during discussions with him. The many guys I know who have also worked with Shae all repeat the same basic truth: if you have the opportunity to work with Shae, you will see massive shifts in your views of yourself and the world, and thus a massive improvement in your quality of life. He helped me change my life. Truly grateful for him!
KRISTOFFER
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"I Found Confidence and Self-Love with Shae’s Help"
Shae's coaching was transformative for me. His compassionate, non-judgmental guidance fostered self-acceptance, empowering me to adopt a positive narrative for my life. With Shae's help, I've gained confidence, optimism, and self-love. Highly recommend Shae for anyone seeking to enhance their mindset and well-being.
DAVE
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"Gained a lot of Clarity and Confidence!"
Shae helped me understand my role as a mature male and overcome common challenges. Through our work together during the coaching, I gained clarity and confidence, developed better communication skills, and feel empowered to reach my full potential. Highly recommended for men seeking to improve their well-being.
FREDERICK
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"Embracing Myself with Shae’s Guidance"
I used to feel shame about my body and sexuality, but working with Shae helped me shed that shame and embrace my masculinity in a positive way. His coaching taught me to honor my body and feelings, and to express my sexuality authentically. Now I feel confident and empowered as a man. If you're struggling with body or sexual shame, I highly recommend Shae's coaching.
MATT
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"Far More Effective Than My Therapist!
I very much appreciate what you do. You are conscientious, fully present, and focused. You have goals for each session and have the patience and fortitude to achieve them. I went to a Psychologist for two years to help me with my commitment and dating issues. He was a super cool knowledgeable dude with a ton of Diplomas and Credentials. He helped me fix some things, but I'd say you are 100x more effective. You are extremely intuitive, have a wise presence, positive energy, and a plethora of tools to correct negative habits and behaviours. I suspect you are an empath, not sure you believe those exist.
NICK
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"Helped Me Navigate Life's Ups and Downs"
Shae has a great ability to help you reduce overthinking and transform self-imposed limitations into forward momentum. With the stresses and expectations that we put on ourselves with life and women, it is great to have access to Shae's vast knowledge and have the tools to deal with any situation life throws at me. From breakups, to motivation, to self-empowerment, Shae has helped treat my inner battles with the respect, care, and ethical strength they deserve, helping me to take action on my feelings and live up to my potential.
Simon
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"Shae Totally Changed How I See Myself"
I heard amazing things about Shae's teachings and the transformative effects on many people's lives, and so was eager to work with him myself. Starting with our first meeting, he gave me several powerful tools to help me directly address my limiting beliefs about my own self-worth. Just talking with Shae had a powerful effect on shattering and reshaping my concept of reality; he has a way of phrasing difficult concepts in metaphors and explanations that are very easy to digest. I can't count the number of 'ah-ha!' moments I've had during discussions with him. The many guys I know who have also worked with Shae all repeat the same basic truth: if you have the opportunity to work with Shae, you will see massive shifts in your views of yourself and the world, and thus a massive improvement in your quality of life. He helped me change my life. Truly grateful for him!
Kristoffer
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"I Found Confidence and Self-Love with Shae’s Help"
Shae's coaching was transformative for me. His compassionate, non-judgmental guidance fostered self-acceptance, empowering me to adopt a positive narrative for my life. With Shae's help, I've gained confidence, optimism, and self-love. Highly recommend Shae for anyone seeking to enhance their mindset and well-being.
Dave
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"Gained a lot of Clarity and Confidence!"
Shae helped me understand my role as a mature male and overcome common challenges. Through our work together during the coaching, I gained clarity and confidence, developed better communication skills, and feel empowered to reach my full potential. Highly recommended for men seeking to improve their well-being.
Frederick
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"Embracing Myself with Shae’s Guidance"
I used to feel shame about my body and sexuality, but working with Shae helped me shed that shame and embrace my masculinity in a positive way. His coaching taught me to honor my body and feelings, and to express my sexuality authentically. Now I feel confident and empowered as a man. If you're struggling with body or sexual shame, I highly recommend Shae's coaching.
Matt
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"Far More Effective Than My Therapist!"
I very much appreciate what you do. You are conscientious, fully present, and focused. You have goals for each session and have the patience and fortitude to achieve them. I went to a Psychologist for two years to help me with my commitment and dating issues. He was a super cool knowledgeable dude with a ton of Diplomas and Credentials. He helped me fix some things, but I'd say you are 100x more effective. You are extremely intuitive, have a wise presence, positive energy, and a plethora of tools to correct negative habits and behaviours. I suspect you are an empath, not sure you believe those exist.
Nick
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"Helped Me Navigate Life's Ups and Downs"
Shae has a great ability to help you reduce overthinking and transform self-imposed limitations into forward momentum. With the stresses and expectations that we put on ourselves with life and women, it is great to have access to Shae's vast knowledge and have the tools to deal with any situation life throws at me. From breakups, to motivation, to self-empowerment, Shae has helped treat my inner battles with the respect, care, and ethical strength they deserve, helping me to take action on my feelings and live up to my potential.
Vince
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"Shae Turned My Confidence Around Overnight!"
I just listened back to the recording of the session I did with Shae recently. It was such a great session and I feel a big shift. The day after this session I went out with a girl who matched me on Bumble. She was hot, recently separated, American, and said she was very picky with who she matched online (didn’t think I had the looks for a hottie to match me). It was the perfect date, we hooked up on the lawn of a stranger's million-dollar beachfront property (they weren’t home at night). I was in such a good frame of mind I just told her everything about what I do and what I’ve done. She was intrigued and loved our time together; then we did it all again the next night as well. I had to leave for travel but she texted me after I left to say those nights were perfect. It was like something I’d dreamed of. She felt my good vibe that’s for sure. Had to share that story with you, uncanny that it was the very next day. Feeling great, thanks again.
If You Don't Feel the Difference, You Don't Pay.
This work is backed by a full guarantee — because if it's not producing real results, it's not worth your investment.
When you book your free session, here's what you get:
No strings. No pitch. Just this:
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A personal diagnostic session with Shae. 30 minutes to identify the pattern, name it precisely, and understand what the path forward actually looks like for you.
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Your personal assessment. A structured profile of where you are across the key areas of your life — so the conversation starts with clarity, not guesswork.
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The Phoenix Rising eBook. The foundation of the work — what the transformation actually involves and how Clean Slate begins.
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Access to The Liberated Man community on Skool. Where the work continues between sessions and the men doing this work connect.
One conversation. Real clarity. The beginning of something different.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Spots Available.
If You Don't Feel the Difference, You Don't Pay.
This work is backed by a full guarantee — because if it's not producing real results, it's not worth your investment.
When you book your free session, here's what you get:
No strings. No pitch. Just this:
-
A personal diagnostic session with Shae. 30 minutes to identify the pattern, name it precisely, and understand what the path forward actually looks like for you.
-
Your personal assessment. A structured profile of where you are across the key areas of your life — so the conversation starts with clarity, not guesswork.
-
The Phoenix Rising eBook. The foundation of the work — what the transformation actually involves and how Clean Slate begins.
-
Access to The Liberated Man community on Skool. Where the work continues between sessions and the men doing this work connect.
One conversation. Real clarity. The beginning of something different.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Spots Available.
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