Reclaim power, confidence, and purpose in key areas of life
Real Transformation Without Endless Therapy.
Get the tools to ensure your confidence is not just a performance, but your new default state.
Book a Call with Shae and Liberate Yourself TodayReclaim power, confidence, and purpose in key areas of life
Real Transformation Without Endless Therapy.
Get confidence that's not just a performance, it's a default state.
1
Eliminate Anxiety
moving beyond just "coping" with social fear and fundamentally rewiring the root cause of your hesitation. Identify and reframe the negative thought patterns that trigger anxiety in professional and social settings. transforming anxious energy into a natural, magnetic presence that draws people in.
2
Master Relationships
Learn to understand attachment styles, master non-verbal communication, and develop the emotional depth that high-quality partners and collaborators are drawn to. Cultivate a powerful sense of self-worth that makes you able to connect with integrity and build lasting partnerships.
3
Get Emotional Control
Become the master of your internal state. Learn to stop being triggered by external events like work pressure or difficult conversations and instead learn to lead your life with intent. Using powerful tools you will develop the capacity to remain calm and clear making you a more effective decision-maker.
1
Eliminate Anxiety
moving beyond just "coping" with social fear and fundamentally rewiring the root cause of your hesitation.
2
Master Relationships
Cultivate a powerful sense of self-worth that makes you able to connect with integrity and build lasting partnerships.
3
Get Emotional Control
Become the master of your internal state. Develop the capacity to remain calm and clear making you a more effective decision-maker.
Break free from limiting patterns, build unshakable confidence, and master your emotions with Shae Matthews
Break free from limiting patterns, build unshakable confidence, and master your emotions with Shae Matthews
Book a Call with Shae and Liberate Yourself TodayIt's Time For You To Have Confidence and Mastery
Get Clarity Over What's Holding You Back, PinPoint RoadBlocks & Map Your Next Level Breakthrough
Dissolve years of overthinking, anxiety, and self-sabotage & walk away with clarity, confidence, and life-changing skills to create a powerful new identity.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Monthly Spots Available.
Dissolve years of overthinking, anxiety, and self-sabotage & walk away with clarity, confidence, and life-changing skills to create a powerful new identity.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Monthly Spots Available.
Accelerate your potential
Start winning in relationships, business, and life without wasting years in therapy
Limited Spots Available.
Clean Slate Coaching Call: Free Book + AI Systems Included:
- Identify your biggest blocks to unlock your potential:
Take a personalized assessment to uncover the core patterns shaping your life. - Optimise your Personalized journey:
Get a plan for mindset shifts needed for your transformative journey. - Get Real Help & Experience Direct support:
On-on-one coaching to discuss your progress and receive personalized support. - Learn how to rapidly overcome limitations & transform your life:
change your life quickly and effectively.
Choice & Freedom.
Move forward to the next stage of your personal transformation.
Book a FREE Session
Limited Monthly Spots Available.
Shaes Coaching Will Accelerate your potential
Break old patterns, upgrade your mindset, and start winning in relationships, business, and life—without wasting years in therapy.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Monthly Spots Available.
Shaes Coaching Works To Transform Key Areas Of Your Life Including:
Clean Slate Coaching Call: Free Book + AI Systems Included:
- Identify your biggest blocks to unlock your potential:
Take a personalized assessment to uncover the core patterns shaping your life. - Optimise your Personalized journey:
Get a plan for mindset shifts needed for your transformative journey. - Get Real Help & Experience Direct support:
On-on-one coaching to discuss your progress and receive personalized support. - Learn how to rapidly overcome limitations & transform your life:
change your life quickly and effectively.
Choice & Freedom.
Move forward to the next stage of your personal transformation.
Book a FREE Session
Limited Monthly Spots Available.
Shaes Coaching Works To Transform Key Areas Of Your Life Including:
I'm Passionate About Guiding You Towards Your Best Self
With over 18 years of experience coaching thousands of clients internationally, I have led all types of high-performing men through rapid and permanent major breakthroughs.
Shae Matthews is a rare anomaly in the coaching world—a veteran mentor grounded equally in high-stakes executive dating dynamics and deep transformative therapy.
For over 15 years, he served as the Head Inner Game Coach for The Natural Lifestyles (TNL), one of the world's premier dating and lifestyle academies. In that time, Shae has guided thousands of men—from CEOs to creatives—out of stagnation and into power, blending evolutionary psychology, somatic healing, and practical social mastery.
Shae's methodology is built on radical rewiring. He specializes in helping men dissolve chronic nice-guy patterns, heal deep-seated shame, and unlock a "magnetic" masculine presence that commands respect in the boardroom and attraction in the bedroom.
Limited Spots Available.
Meet Executive Transformation Coach & Mentor,
"The Inner Game Shaeman"
I'm Passionate About Guiding You Towards Your Best Self
With over 18 years of experience coaching thousands of clients internationally, I have led all types of high-performing men through rapid and permanent major breakthroughs.
Shae Matthews is a rare anomaly in the coaching world a veteran mentor grounded equally in high-stakes executive dating dynamics and deep transformative therapy.
For over 15 years, he served as the Head Inner Game Coach for The Natural Lifestyles (TNL), one of the world's premier dating and lifestyle academies. In that time, Shae has guided thousands of men from CEOs to creatives out of stagnation and into power, blending evolutionary psychology, somatic healing, and practical social mastery.
Shae's methodology is built on radical rewiring. He specializes in helping men dissolve chronic nice-guy patterns, heal deep-seated shame, and unlock a "magnetic" masculine presence that commands respect in the boardroom and attraction in the bedroom.
Limited Monthly Spots Available.
About The Coaching With Shae Matthews
Shae's coaching methods are especially designed to help men stuck in themselves and life to get the skills and understandings they need to redefine their lives from the inside out and create a next level of identity and lifestyle. Using scientifically proven rapid transformational methods to deliver clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of purpose. Shae will personally guide you through sessions to shift from emotional pain to optimal outcomes.
Coaching is designed to help you:
- Release deep-seated fears and insecurities.
- Uncover and break free from unconscious habits.
- Reclaim your energy, focus, and resilience.
- Heal deep-rooted traumas and eliminate limiting beliefs that hold you back.
- Reset your mental state to better support your goals and aspirations.
- Learn strategies for developing resilience and consistency.
- Identify areas of hidden potential for transformation in relationships and career
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Spots Available.
About The Coaching With Shae Matthews
Shae's coaching methods are especially designed to help men stuck in themselves and life to get the skills and understandings they need to redefine their lives from the inside out and create a next level of identity and lifestyle. Using scientifically proven rapid transformational methods to deliver clarity, confidence, and a renewed sense of purpose. Shae will personally guide you through sessions to shift from emotional pain to optimal outcomes.
Coaching is designed to help you:
- Release deep-seated fears and insecurities.
- Uncover and break free from unconscious habits.
- Reclaim your energy, focus, and resilience.
- Heal deep-rooted traumas and eliminate limiting beliefs that hold you back.
- Reset your mental state to better support your goals and aspirations.
- Learn strategies for developing resilience and consistency.
- Identify areas of hidden potential for transformation in relationships and career
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Monthly Spots Available.
Real Client Transformation Stories
Work With Shae, Break Free, Build Confidence, and Thrive
Real Client Stories.
Work With Shae, Break Free, Build Confidence, and Thrive
Simon
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Shae Totally Changed How I See Myself"
I heard amazing things about Shae's teachings and the transformative effects on many people's lives, and so was eager to work with him myself. Starting with our first meeting, he gave me several powerful tools to help me directly address my limiting beliefs about my own self-worth. Just talking with Shae had a powerful effect on shattering and reshaping my concept of reality; he has a way of phrasing difficult concepts in metaphors and explanations that are very easy to digest. I can't count the number of 'ah-ha!' moments I've had during discussions with him. The many guys I know who have also worked with Shae all repeat the same basic truth: if you have the opportunity to work with Shae, you will see massive shifts in your views of yourself and the world, and thus a massive improvement in your quality of life. He helped me change my life. Truly grateful for him!
Kristoffer
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"I Found Confidence and Self-Love with Shae’s Help"
Shae's coaching was transformative for me. His compassionate, non-judgmental guidance fostered self-acceptance, empowering me to adopt a positive narrative for my life. With Shae's help, I've gained confidence, optimism, and self-love. Highly recommend Shae for anyone seeking to enhance their mindset and well-being.
Dave
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Gained a lot of Clarity and Confidence!"
Shae helped me understand my role as a mature male and overcome common challenges. Through our work together during the coaching, I gained clarity and confidence, developed better communication skills, and feel empowered to reach my full potential. Highly recommended for men seeking to improve their well-being.
Frederick
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Embracing Myself with Shae’s Guidance"
I used to feel shame about my body and sexuality, but working with Shae helped me shed that shame and embrace my masculinity in a positive way. His coaching taught me to honor my body and feelings, and to express my sexuality authentically. Now I feel confident and empowered as a man. If you're struggling with body or sexual shame, I highly recommend Shae's coaching.
Matt
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Far More Effective Than My Therapist!"
I very much appreciate what you do. You are conscientious, fully present, and focused. You have goals for each session and have the patience and fortitude to achieve them. I went to a Psychologist for two years to help me with my commitment and dating issues. He was a super cool knowledgeable dude with a ton of Diplomas and Credentials. He helped me fix some things, but I'd say you are 100x more effective. You are extremely intuitive, have a wise presence, positive energy, and a plethora of tools to correct negative habits and behaviours. I suspect you are an empath, not sure you believe those exist.
Nick
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Helped Me Navigate Life's Ups and Downs"
Shae has a great ability to help you reduce overthinking and transform self-imposed limitations into forward momentum. With the stresses and expectations that we put on ourselves with life and women, it is great to have access to Shae's vast knowledge and have the tools to deal with any situation life throws at me. From breakups, to motivation, to self-empowerment, Shae has helped treat my inner battles with the respect, care, and ethical strength they deserve, helping me to take action on my feelings and live up to my potential.
Vince
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Shae Turned My Confidence Around Overnight!"
I just listened back to the recording of the session I did with Shae recently. It was such a great session and I feel a big shift. The day after this session I went out with a girl who matched me on Bumble. She was hot, recently separated, American, and said she was very picky with who she matched online (didn’t think I had the looks for a hottie to match me). It was the perfect date, we hooked up on the lawn of a stranger's million-dollar beachfront property (they weren’t home at night). I was in such a good frame of mind I just told her everything about what I do and what I’ve done. She was intrigued and loved our time together; then we did it all again the next night as well. I had to leave for travel but she texted me after I left to say those nights were perfect. It was like something I’d dreamed of. She felt my good vibe that’s for sure. Had to share that story with you, uncanny that it was the very next day. Feeling great, thanks again.
Simon
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Shae Totally Changed How I See Myself"
I heard amazing things about Shae's teachings and the transformative effects on many people's lives, and so was eager to work with him myself. Starting with our first meeting, he gave me several powerful tools to help me directly address my limiting beliefs about my own self-worth. Just talking with Shae had a powerful effect on shattering and reshaping my concept of reality; he has a way of phrasing difficult concepts in metaphors and explanations that are very easy to digest. I can't count the number of 'ah-ha!' moments I've had during discussions with him. The many guys I know who have also worked with Shae all repeat the same basic truth: if you have the opportunity to work with Shae, you will see massive shifts in your views of yourself and the world, and thus a massive improvement in your quality of life. He helped me change my life. Truly grateful for him!
Kristoffer
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"I Found Confidence and Self-Love with Shae’s Help"
Shae's coaching was transformative for me. His compassionate, non-judgmental guidance fostered self-acceptance, empowering me to adopt a positive narrative for my life. With Shae's help, I've gained confidence, optimism, and self-love. Highly recommend Shae for anyone seeking to enhance their mindset and well-being.
Dave
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Gained a lot of Clarity and Confidence!"
Shae helped me understand my role as a mature male and overcome common challenges. Through our work together during the coaching, I gained clarity and confidence, developed better communication skills, and feel empowered to reach my full potential. Highly recommended for men seeking to improve their well-being.
Frederick
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Embracing Myself with Shae’s Guidance"
I used to feel shame about my body and sexuality, but working with Shae helped me shed that shame and embrace my masculinity in a positive way. His coaching taught me to honor my body and feelings, and to express my sexuality authentically. Now I feel confident and empowered as a man. If you're struggling with body or sexual shame, I highly recommend Shae's coaching.
Matt
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Far More Effective Than My Therapist!"
I very much appreciate what you do. You are conscientious, fully present, and focused. You have goals for each session and have the patience and fortitude to achieve them. I went to a Psychologist for two years to help me with my commitment and dating issues. He was a super cool knowledgeable dude with a ton of Diplomas and Credentials. He helped me fix some things, but I'd say you are 100x more effective. You are extremely intuitive, have a wise presence, positive energy, and a plethora of tools to correct negative habits and behaviours. I suspect you are an empath, not sure you believe those exist.
Nick
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Helped Me Navigate Life's Ups and Downs"
Shae has a great ability to help you reduce overthinking and transform self-imposed limitations into forward momentum. With the stresses and expectations that we put on ourselves with life and women, it is great to have access to Shae's vast knowledge and have the tools to deal with any situation life throws at me. From breakups, to motivation, to self-empowerment, Shae has helped treat my inner battles with the respect, care, and ethical strength they deserve, helping me to take action on my feelings and live up to my potential.
Vince
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Shae Turned My Confidence Around Overnight!"
I just listened back to the recording of the session I did with Shae recently. It was such a great session and I feel a big shift. The day after this session I went out with a girl who matched me on Bumble. She was hot, recently separated, American, and said she was very picky with who she matched online (didn’t think I had the looks for a hottie to match me). It was the perfect date, we hooked up on the lawn of a stranger's million-dollar beachfront property (they weren’t home at night). I was in such a good frame of mind I just told her everything about what I do and what I’ve done. She was intrigued and loved our time together; then we did it all again the next night as well. I had to leave for travel but she texted me after I left to say those nights were perfect. It was like something I’d dreamed of. She felt my good vibe that’s for sure. Had to share that story with you, uncanny that it was the very next day. Feeling great, thanks again.
UNBEATABLE VALUE:
Get Your Free Book, Ai System + Strategy Session, Skool Community &
Mindset Accelerator Course pack.
Transform your Self Limiting Patterns, Train Life Changing Skills you didn't know Existed And Get The Edge & Get More Out Of Life
This is a life changing opportunity for, no-BS transformation work that gets results.
Upgrade your mental operating system. Claim Your:
-
Personal Breakthrough Call with Shae
-
Schema Personality Test + AI Co Pilot.
-
Get Your, Inner Game Mindset Accelerator Pack when you sign up.
-
Clean Slate Transformation eBook
Move forward with a refreshed strategy, ready to take on the next stage of your personal transformation in Dating, Career & Personal Mastery.
Book Your FREE Intro Session Limited Spots Available.
UNBEATABLE VALUE:
Get Your Free Book, Ai System + Strategy Session, Skool Community &
Mindset Accelerator Course pack.
Transform your Self Limiting Patterns, Train Life Changing Skills you didn't know Existed And Get The Edge & Get More Out Of Life
Move forward with a refreshed strategy, ready to take on the next stage of your personal transformation in Dating, Career & Personal Mastery.
Stop overthinking. Stop the waiting. Upgrade your mental operating system. Claim Your:
- Breakthrough Strategy Call with Shae
- Schema Personality Test
- Inner Game Mindset Accelerator Pack
- Clean Slate Transformation eBook
Move forward with a refreshed mindset, ready to take on the world and next stage of your personal transformation.
Limited Monthly Spots Available.
Sign up now and learn how to move from self sabotage to masculine empowerment.